⭒❤︎ for women who do it all, feel like they don’t belong, and want more than this ❤︎⭒
✨Life is worth living. And you are so beautiful, exactly as you are.✨
from me, to you
♡Hi! I'm Gaozong Yang♡
The Heart’s Desire Practitioner
I’m a Hmong American woman, very intuitive, a creative, a storyteller, a dancer, and a super lover of dramas (Korean, Chinese, Thai Lakorns, Hmong movies & Bollywood romance films), music, mangas, food, hiking, life adventures, and yummy desserts!!! PLUS! I LOVE ALL YOU CAN EAT BUFFETS!!
I related so deeply to the villainess arc, the women in anime/mangas and Chinese dramas who were misunderstood, judged, dismissed before anyone truly knew their hearts, and painted as the villain in someone else’s eyes. Yet instead of abandoning themselves to be accepted, they chose to stand in their truth, protect what mattered to them, and keep moving forward despite rejection, loneliness, and heartbreak.
Those characters felt like me. I wanted to believe that a person could stay true to themselves, be deeply seen for who they really were, and still find love, belonging, genuine friendships, and a life that felt right for them.
For much of my own life, I looked outside myself for answers. I was told who I should be, what was “best” for me, and which path I should follow until I could no longer tell the difference between my own voice and everyone else’s. Learning to trust myself again has been one of the most meaningful parts of my journey. No matter how frustrating it felt for me and sometimes challening, I had the desire for myself to be heard by me. I wanted to stand up for myself and speak what is true for me and it’s felt so empowering (fun too).
So many of us move fast. We hustle through the day and then carry that same speed home with us, still in our heads, still running the list, still measuring whether what we did was enough. Fun might be dancing in your kitchen. It might be a drama you’ve watched four times. Part of what we do together is finding out what yours actually looks like.
Today, this is the space I want to create for others: a place where you are supported and can connect with yourself, hear your voice and desires and live your life true to you.
I Know Because I Had to Learn It
I’ve been sitting with my body for over 12 years. Not in a “perfect posture, clear mind” kind of way. In a what is that? kind of way.
Here’s the one that taught me the most.
My hairdresser burned my ear with the flat iron. I felt the pain. I felt the anger rise up. I said “ow that hurts,” looking right at her. She said “oh sorry,” and kept styling my hair. And I stayed in the chair. And when it was done, I paid her. I even tipped her. And I walked out having completely bypassed the anger and the hurt in my right ear.
I kept doing the “right” thing at the expense of myself. I kept finding ways to abandon me so that other people stayed comfortable, so I wouldn’t be the difficult one, so nobody would see me as the bad guy.
Through over 12 years of meditation and learning the language of my own body, through somatic approaches to healing, embodied intimacy and relationship training, and Voice Dialogue training, what I came to understand is that there is nothing wrong with me. It’s a learned pattern. And it can be unlearned.
Those chills, those waves, that tightening. That’s me, communicating. And I get to listen.
The Experience of Working With Me
When you’re with me, you’re going to be challenged. You’re going to be encouraged. Even in the uncomfortable moments, the unfamiliar, the parts that feel hard, I’m here with you the whole way through. Undivided attention. Here.
And I’m going to talk too. I’m not going to sit there and nod. I react, I laugh, I get annoyed on your behalf, and I’ll tell you what I actually think when you want it. A lot of us grew up talking to people who gave nothing back, so another careful listener isn’t really the thing.
I’ll gently bring you back when you’re circling, and you’ll leave with something clear to actually do next.
People have called me psychic before. I don’t call myself that. What I’ll say is that my seeing, hearing, knowing, and feeling are strong, and they show up when they show up along with being very intuitive. Throughout our time I stay open to whatever wants to come through, a message, an image, a word. When it shows up, I share it with you. Sometimes I’ll say something that has nothing to do with what you just told me, and it turns out to be exactly the thing. I don’t always know where it comes from. I just say it. I won’t promise it happens every session, but it finds its way in when it does.
And this work is not only about finding your calm. Yes, I love the calm. But sometimes I need to move. Shake, dance, twirl, jump up and down. Punch a pillow. Make whatever sound is actually in my body in that moment. We MOVE our body here. When it’s time to move, I’ll tell you what we’re doing and walk you through it. You’ll always know what’s coming before we start.
I only support what I feel confident supporting, because it’s exactly what I’ve gone through. Here’s one example. I worked a job that was fast paced, physical, and emotionally demanding. I’d come home so tired. Still, sitting at a desk answering phone calls was more overwhelming to me than that job was. That doesn’t make sense in my head, and when I check in with myself, it’s TRUE. It’s because there’s a part of me, not all of me, a part, that believes a desk job would be way less stressful. That part would rather be overwhelmed at the physical job than sitting still answering phones. We make decisions sometimes that bulldoze right over the part that’s scared, or worried, or trying to protect us, without knowing it’s even in there. Voice dialogue, parts work, is how we get to hear from it. I find it fun and useful, for myself and for the women I support.
Because it’s also about the emotions that aren’t soft or quiet. The anger. The frustration. The heaviness. The joy that is so full it has to go somewhere.Sometimes what they need isn’t stillness. It’s expression.
There is space for all of it here. The calm and the moving. The peace and the twirl. The breath and the scream. Because you are not one note. You are the whole song, and we get to play all of it.
Who I Work With
I’m here for the woman who feels everything, and is done abandoning herself to keep everyone else comfortable.
- Focusing on others so much that you forget about your needs and what you want to do
- Feeling at home in your body and actually liking being there
- Catching the moment your hand reaches out or your voice says “sure,” before you’ve checked whether that’s a real yes. And learning you’re allowed to pause right there
- The shame that comes with feeling things deeply. Being called too sensitive, too intense, too much, until you believe your own emotions are bad
- Being misread. Cast as the difficult one, the dramatic one, the problem, and carrying somebody else’s story about you ever since
- Trusting your knowing when someone’s talking you out of it
- Not knowing how to rest, or what you even like anymore
What I’m not here for: I don’t work in the space of sex, gender identity, sexuality topics, or depression. Clinical depression is different, and that isn’t my lane. I’m telling you honestly so you know exactly what kind of space you’re stepping into.
intimate 1:1
Private Sessions with Gaozong
Just you and me. A private space where you can slow down, all for you that welcomes everything having to do with you.
I'm very intuitive, I know what's being said beyond the words. I pick up on your energy, and on what's actually wanting to be heard, what's underneath, what you don't yet see or hear in yourself. Throughout our time together, I stay open to whatever wants to come through, a message, an image, a word, and when it shows up, I'll share it with you. I won't promise it happens every session, but it finds its way in when it does 🙂
Come with an open heart and an open mind. Your heart's desires are meant to be known and enjoyed.
A lot of people come to me in the middle of a transition. A breakup, a move, a career change, a loss. Somewhere the ground is shifting and you want one steady hour in the middle of it.
Each session will be up to 1 hour and 30 minutes. Some sessions use the whole time, while some find the place to end at the hour, and both are exactly right. I always hold the fuller time first so there's never a rush, and I'm with you paying attention the whole way through to how you're doing and what you need in that moment. You get all the time you need, and nothing feels cut short.
All About Me Session
One session, entirely yours, with no pressure to decide what comes next.
The you who is waiting to be met, who follows your heart, your rhythm in this life. The beauty and bountiful richness of you that is to be felt, seen, and experienced.
- Space to be seen, everything that comes up in the body, the confusion, the uncomfortable, the emotions, the vulnerability, your truths are all accepted and welcomed
- Supported by practices and tools that best support you, ranging from somatic work, parts work, intuitive guidance, inner child work, body movement, and more
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota: virtual is our home base, with the occasional outside session at a walking trail or park that I pick, once we have been working together for a while
If you're feeling a little unsure about booking, that's completely normal. Almost everyone arrives a bit hesitant. It tends to shift within the first few minutes.
The Bloom Experience
Six sessions to build real momentum, with weekday messaging holding you the whole way through.
6 × 90-60 min sessions at $268 each, weekday messaging included throughout.
Six sessions gives us real room to build something together, not just one moment of insight, but a thread you get to keep pulling. For this option you receive the exact same support as the full Month Experience.
- 6 × 90-60 min sessions
- Weekday messaging access between sessions, included. For support, for what's coming up for you, for reflections. This is here to hold you between sessions, not to replace one, our real work still happens in session
- Fully personalized for you uniquely
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota: virtual is our home base, with the occasional outside session at a walking trail or park that I pick, once we have been working together for a while
If you're feeling a little unsure about booking, that's completely normal. Almost everyone arrives a bit hesitant. It tends to shift within the first few minutes.
The Everlasting Experience
A season to give to yourself, the kind you carry and that spreads into the rest of your life. Choose 1, 3, or 6 months together.
The longer you choose, the more the per-session rate comes down. $236, then $231, then $221. Depth is rewarded here.
However long you choose, the rhythm stays the same: 2 sessions per week, each 90-60 minutes long. And if a week ever calls for just 1, that is completely okay. We move at the pace your life is actually asking for.
1 Month: 8 total sessions
3 Months: 26 total sessions
6 Months: 39 total sessions
- Weekday messaging access between sessions, included. For support, for what's coming up for you, for reflections. This is here to hold you between sessions, not to replace one, our real work still happens in session
- Fully personalized for you uniquely
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota: virtual is our home base, with the occasional outside session at a walking trail or park that I pick, once we have been working together for a while
The aim is 2 sessions a week, so your Everlasting Experience moves with real momentum, whichever length you choose. And if a week ever calls for just 1, that's completely okay, we simply adjust the pace so all your sessions still happen, just over a bit more time.
If you're feeling a little unsure about booking, that's completely normal. Almost everyone arrives a bit hesitant. It tends to shift within the first few minutes.
For any of the three above, once you make your purchase you'll be taken straight to my booking calendar to pick your session time. It shows up right after checkout, so you can grab your spot the same moment you say yes.
I Know How To Enjoy Being Here
Most people I meet are running at a pace nobody ever gave them permission to leave, and they carry it home without noticing. Sitting on their own couch, still doing the math on whether today was enough.
I can make the space where that stops for a while.
And if you’re someone who says I don’t even know what I like anymore, you’re not broken. You were handed one narrow definition of fun and it never fit you. Finding out what yours actually looks like is some of my favorite work there is.
You're here and have always belong. The life you are yet to live, to experience and people you have yet to meet. There is more for you that you don't know about. I'm excited for you and I'm excited for me!
Gaozong Yang
Love Notes
"It's almost as if she's giving you a mental hug that was long overdue."
